- An older adult solely hanging with younger teens (I’m talking 25yo & 15yo) and who doesn’t seem to have any other adult friend is a red flag.
- An older adult talking to a younger teen and saying stuff like “you’re the only one who understands me” “I’d hurt myself if you weren’t there” “You’re my only friend” is a red flag.
- Someone (regardless of age) who constantly ends up in discourse & drama is a red flag.
- If you’re afraid to talk to your friend(s), if you feel like you’ve got to tiptoe as to not set them off and get yelled at/ostracized/worse, that’s a red flag.
it’s so sad when cishet girls are like “I’m a feminist but I’m not a hairy lesbian” like don’t be so hard on yourself<3 I’m sure you have some good qualities too<3
Help a chronically poor black trans man pay utilities,
Sadly it’s me again, while my last post when really well it still died right when we were 160$ short of the goal and I just barely scraped by enough to pay rent on time but sadly it put me in the red and I was hit with a insufficient funds charge yesterday. I’m trying to get out of the red before I accrue anymore debt as well as pay my utilities bills and do laundry which I’ve been putting off but can’t anymore. I’m still unemployed after being laid off again last month and am waiting to receive unemployment as I’m not sure when I’ll be able to find work again.
My electric is 40$
Gas is 40$
Internet is 80$
Laundry is 25$ (I have to use a service it’s currently not safe to use the laundromat in my area after a shooting 2 days ago)
